Strange things that turn me off
Hello again beautiful people… and the ugly people in the front. It takes A LOT for a girl to become a woman, and EVEN MORE for a woman to be considered a “Lady.” I can imagine that it is a lot of hard work… mainly because I see lots of failures each and every damn day! So this article is about things that turn me off when I first catch a glimpse of a young female “doing the least.”
First allow me to say that some of these are case by case as is everything in life, however a few of these are not!
Before a date even goes down… before I even ask you for youre phone number… a few things that my friends and I see as automatic point deduction or instant disqualification. Feel free to step your game up based on these things.
Bad hygiene
*throws up in mouth* OH LORD…
I’m sorry I had to do that to you fine people… but C’mon… REALLY?! do I even Have to say anything about this? Hell I’m flossing right now (really I am)
“Wordz… What’s so Bad about that?”
You serious? Did you really ask me that?? A lady… no no forget Lady, Woman, Girl, a FEMALE… has so many things going on with her body that she NEEDS to have epic hygiene otherwise there is NO-WAY I am going to deal with her.
Allow me to dig deeper, I’m so serious about he hygiene thing that lots of times I’ll shake a womans hand to look and see how dirty her nails are and if i can see dirt under her nails etc. as far as odor, she doesn’t HAVE to smell like perfume or nice oils however it is NEVER ACCEPTABLE to EVER smell like fish EVER… NEVER EVER
NEVER NEVER…
EVER!!
Yeah baby... that's YOU
Fish or just bad musky body odor is not good at all, not just because I have an amazing sence of smell… but because you don’t wash your *ss or you don’t do it properly… and you probably have a UTI or an STD and I hate you…
Pajama Pants in public
“Wordz… What’s so Bad about that?”
To lots of women its cute, to others is quick… to me there’s just something about PJ pants in public that makes me feel like you don’t wash your *ss before you leave the house… like you woke up in the morning… rolled out of bed… and left the house. Even worse, I think that you walk around all day then hop RIGHT BACK into bed with PJ’s that have been getting dirt and etc from outdoors on… STILL with no clean up… nuh-uh. I will not be responding to ANY woman wearing PJ pants in public…
I mean if you’re grabbing the mail or something I can count that as a reasonable exception… a life or death incident like a house fire or needing to run to the hospital.. absolutely… but if you are going more than 100 feet from youre house or into a business… NOT A GOOD LOOK!!
furthermore for most of you ladies PJ pants are perhaps the most UN-flattering article of clothing you could wear, even if you have curves (unless they’re over proportioned) the fact that they are covered in blue brown and yellow scooby-doo or pikachu RUINS EVERYTHING!
Dirty *ss Shoes
Growing up I noticed that most women pay VERY close (almost obsessed) attention to shoes. Why? Well what man really knows why most women are so obsessed with shoes however a friend told me. “If clothes make the man, his shoes define him…” and apparently “a mans shoes say allot about him.”
I PRAY... They don't!
“Wordz… What’s so Bad about that?”
“Her shoes look REALLY OLD does she have bad hygene?” (another exception… yup… was the case)
“Does she have low self esteem?” (You guessed it… exception… def was the case)
now of course not EVERY woman with wack taste in shoes is crazy has low self-esteem or bad hygiene… hell i know plenty of women who have those problems with GREAT shoe game… I’m just saying that if shoes are important to most woman they should be something we as men look at as well cause they care more about it them most of US do
I know these are you're Fav Shoes boo... it's cool
The Short Pony tail aka “THE MISTY”
This or the straight up hair wrap… bad.. ultra ghetto… wack…
GOD AWFUL
“Wordz… What’s so Bad about that?”
(More coming soon!!)
Just saw this, and for the most part, I agree — hygiene is so important, and even if a girl doesn’t think they’re attractive, they should at least be clean because no matter how attractive you are, a bad smell, noticeably unwashed hair, or clothes with noticeable old stains (new stains were probably just an accident of the day) takes you down at least two points on the ten point attractiveness scale.
And unless you are in college (if you’re in high school or younger, your parents should have woken you up early enough to change) and are running late for class, you have no excuse to wear pajama pants in public. If you have work, you’d sacrifice being late in order to put work clothes on.
The short ponytail, also, just makes no sense for women to wear.
But….. I think you should have made it clearer that dirty shoes don’t always indicate something wrong. For many women, it probably is a concern. However, some people just think about clothing differently. For me, the order of priority for me when I see someone is hair, face, top clothing, and then body frame. It just doesn’t make any sense to look below their waist. There shouldn’t be anything interesting down there. I’ll notice if they’re wearing noticeably colorful shoes or pants or skirts — but then that’s because they want you to notice. But if it’s just jeans, neutral color pants/skirt/shorts, or a pair of black or white every-day shoes, then it’s just there for practicality. Bottoms get dirty — sometimes you sit on benches or the ground, but eventually you throw them in the wash…. and shoes get REALLY dirty — they walk in mud, step on bugs, and in general are always in contact with “OTHER THINGS,” which your tops and hair aren’t. But unless you work somewhere that involves looking presentable, it just isn’t practical to clean your shoes when they’ll eventually get worn and you’d want new ones soon anyway. I’m not saying that you should excuse shoes that are coated in mud or bug juice on them — that goes back to hygiene. I’m saying that your post implies that even the slightest bit of scuff marks or show of wear-and-tear are unacceptable on anything but gym shoes or shoes you wear to work, which is absolutely unreasonable. If a girl can’t wear a pair of worn comfortable shoes with, say, a pair of jeans without being judged, then it is the judger who is being absurd. In the past few years, the only times I’ve worn shoes that had not a speck of dirty or wear in them were at interviews, at the law firm I work at, parties, or classy restaurants. Everything else, I’ve owned for ages because they’re reliable and no one should care because it’d be stupid to risk dirtying expensive footwear.